I have no idea what is taught in school as to ‘morality’ these days. It seems unlikely that many of us have gone through the Sister Act experience of earnest matrons lecturing us on ‘sin’ or enduring a brutal masterclass in punishing bad language such as Kathleen Freeman gave as The Penguin in ‘The Blues Brothers’. Of the two, I prefer Dame Maggie Smith who was clearly a superior Mother. Dame Maggie always brings something to the part and starting out unsympathetic, she discloses an underlying wisdom and understanding of worldliness which she applies for the benefit of others including Whoopi Goldberg’s nun on the run, novice Sister Mary Clarence. Both films are good clean fun – sort of!
It being about 40 years since I had RE at school under our own Penguin, I am a bit rusty on The Seven Deadly Sins and had to research them.
Pride, Greed, Lust, Envy, Gluttony, Wrath and Sloth can endanger relationships: I probably mentioned an amicable divorce I handled where sloth was to blame – not the Gogglebox Sloth (Neal), but the inattention that the husband embodied in not being bothered his wife was off getting a bit of Lust providing she didn’t distract him from defeating the end-boss when she came in. There is tolerance and there is indifference. One ‘sin’ begat another, but they showed some virtues too and were a likeable un-coupled pair.
Not as well-known as the Dark Side’s Seven Deadly Sins, the counterpart Seven Heavenly Virtues are the Cinderella Brides for Seven Brothers.
Owing to their innate niceness, the Virtues smile fondly at the more famous Three Graces who always get the limelight prancing around in gauzy costumes. Such is their modesty, I had to look up the Virtues and found them rather pertinent to sustaining a healthy relationship – so the Seven are:
Chastity consideration in sexual conduct and health
Temperance not ‘losing it’
Charity not just about money – generosity of attitude and tone
Diligence being supportive
Patience tolerance – forgiveness
Kindness unselfishness – empathy
Humility self-honesty – open-mindedness – valuing others – doing what it takes
Put that way, the Seven Virtues sound positive and modern thus not a girl group for Simon Cowell!
The Seven Virtues – coming to a good relationship near you!